lostfool 680 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 It is believed to be suicide. She has suffered with mental illness her whole life. It's so heartbreaking when someone suffered so much in their head that they could no longer go on. She called me yesterday and I missed her call, I called her back and got no answer. Then she texted me with "help". I called her again and no answer. Damnit! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
jehurey 3,230 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 Sorry to hear that. And every bit as important, you can't beat yourself up over this. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
-GD-X★ 7,731 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 I’m sorry for your loss. There’s nothing you could have done to prevent this. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lostfool 680 Posted May 31, 2021 Author Share Posted May 31, 2021 3 hours ago, -GD-X said: I’m sorry for your loss. There’s nothing you could have done to prevent this. Yeah that's what I remind myself. Once someone decides they can no longer go on there is nothing you can do. All you will do is delay the inevitable. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
-GD-X★ 7,731 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 24 minutes ago, lostfool said: Yeah that's what I remind myself. Once someone decides they can no longer go on there is nothing you can do. All you will do is delay the inevitable. It’s the unfortunate truth Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GeorgeW1000 118 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 Wow, that's sad. I'm sorry. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
PuNKy_LeMmInG 172 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 sorry from somebody who suffered with depression, you helped by caring, if somebody is determined they sadly will do it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Remij 4,670 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 Really sorry to hear that man. Mental illness is some real shit. I can imagine how you're feeling right now, but just know in your heart that what everyone is saying is right. There's nothing you could have done, and you didn't know. That's what's so tough about dealing with friends and family suffering from mental illness/depression. It can be impossible and very hard to spot until it's too late. Is a vicious thing and sometimes the more you try to help, the worse things can get. The only thing you can do now is keep that person in your memory and cherish the time you had together, and continue on and do what you can to improve your own mental health and life and spend as much time you can with those you love. Again, really sorry for your loss. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
DynamiteCop 2,085 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 This stuff is never easy, at least 30 people from my graduating class are dead now not to mention the countless others who weren't in my class that I also knew. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
-GD-X★ 7,731 Posted May 31, 2021 Share Posted May 31, 2021 5 minutes ago, DynamiteCop said: This stuff is never easy, at least 30 people from my graduating class are dead now not to mention the countless others who weren't in my class that I also knew. That’s awful to hear. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lostfool 680 Posted June 2, 2021 Author Share Posted June 2, 2021 Thank you guys for the comments. I really appreciate it. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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